Many times I have chased what I thought and saw was the right thing for me only to understand later that it was all a mirage. I’m not sure what I saw, but it’s not necessarily about what you see but it is about what you feel. As a man (as I am indeed the male gender) it is important to not feel with ya thing downstairs but to really focus on your heart and to see if you feel anything there. Meaningful choices will move you. There is many choices and paths in today’s world. It is critical to make the right choices. Feel with your heart to ensure you make the right choices. Really ask yourself the deep questions like, why? How does this help me? Where will this lead me?
I feel and see that nowadays the world is preying on our short attention spans. You can see this in social media and advertisements. We are almost trained in a sense where social media studies what we like and constantly feeds more of the like-kind in-front of our screens. The same thing happens in targeted advertising. They know how to get to us because businesses understand people. They understand chemistry: dopamine, adrenaline, and many other biochemicals.
Now what I said is a intellectual explanation. A simpler explanation is one we have already stated in the introduction. In order to not be led astray regretting where you are you have to start feeling instead of just seeing. Once you double check with yourself that you are making the right moves, then you can start moving through life with more purpose. That is the goal, do not loose sight of that.
Thank you for reading!
CJ
